Worried an older loved one is being neglected or harmed?

You are not alone. Document what you are seeing, understand your options, and get guidance on what to do next—confidentially and compassionately.

Adult child sitting with an elderly loved one

Three common warning signals

Unexplained injuries

Bruises, cuts, burns, or fractures that cannot be explained or do not match the explanation given.

Signs of neglect

Poor hygiene, untreated medical conditions, weight loss, or unsafe living conditions.

Financial pressure

Missing money or valuables, sudden changes to accounts, or someone pressuring them for funds.

If someone is in immediate danger, call 911.

For urgent concerns, contact your local Adult Protective Services.

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More warning signs to watch for

Trust your instincts. If something seems off, it is worth taking seriously.

View all signs

Emotional changes

Withdrawal, fear, anxiety, depression, or sudden changes in mood.

Medication issues

Missed doses, overdosing, or medications not managed properly.

Poor nutrition or hydration

Dehydration, malnutrition, or unsanitary food conditions.

Isolation

Prevented from visiting with family or friends or restricted access to communication.

Unsafe living conditions

Filthy environment, unsanitary bedding, or hazards that increase risk.

Simple evidence checklist

Documenting what you observe can help protect your loved one and support any investigation.

Download printable checklist

How the confidential intake works

1

Share what you know

Answer a few simple questions about your concerns. It is confidential and secure.

2

We review your information

Our team reviews your details and identifies possible next steps and resources.

3

Get personalized guidance

You will receive clear options, including local resources and legal or advocacy support.

4

Take action with support

You decide what is right for your loved one. We are here when you need us.

You do not have to face this alone.

Start a confidential check today and get guidance on your next steps.

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